From the very moment I’d realized I’m an extrovert it became
impossible for me to understand the other side of the coin. How could one be an
introvert? My callowness made me think. Also being garrulous by nature it seems
an impossible feat (even now) to be laconic in my style. Why this urge? You
might think. The answer lies in the fact that being an introvert or an
extrovert has its innate boons and banes. As an extrovert I truly truly want to
explore that energy existing within which keeps an introvert motivated. As for
us extroverts we try and seek positivity and optimism externally which seems to
be an impossible task in contemporary times! It’s easy for us to be deteriorated
if our surroundings are dull or do not share the same vigour as we do. How lucky
are the ambiverts! Is success related to this or independent of it? Is happiness
and satisfaction in general related to the “vertere” or the turning in or out
of you? I personally feel it’s independent but probably the amalgamation of
both would be a more stronger and powerful trait. Need to learn to keep my mouth
shut at times (several times) have been told this since school days but till
date no improvement whatsoever. So is it not in my control? My nature? Do I need
to naturally accept it? As a control freak it’s a freaky topic you bet. Hope to
improve myself…someday…surely!
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