I like the word serendipity. The sound of it, it’s meaning,
it’s all very perfect. The same perfect that one expects and hopes and wants
for one’s own life. Haven’t we all spent those countless moments being lost in
the “if only” of a situation? Especially when the “if only” is associated with
someone whom you’ve become fond of, with whom these recent emotions of
happiness and joy, like you’ve never felt before, have started emerging, with
whose existence you feel reason enough to live that perfect moment you’d
imagined. That someone whom you so dearly want to call special but still
hesitate because you don’t know if it is too early to say so. Love, affection and
fondness are the three hot balls ones heart juggles through while keeping up
its beats. Anxiety, worry and fear are the three hotter balls. Fear and love go
hand in hand because of the value and preciousness associated with the person
in concern. But sometimes the fear is uncalled for. Sometimes a leap of faith
is more necessary than anything else. If one gets too scared of heart breaks,
before even getting into a situation that one assumes to create such a
conclusion, it is no point falling in love. You never will. There is all the
good and the perfect associated with love but there is compromise and
commitment too. There will be jealousy, there will be misunderstandings but it’s
that very love that would help over power all of the imperfect. We spend so
much time thinking about our “if only” that we forget about the importance of
imperfect. When it comes to love, imperfect is the perfect. No one seems to
acknowledge it. Including you and me. We all eliminate millions and millions of
possibilities with so many people just because of some stupid reasons which if
you think deeply about wouldn’t have mattered to you if all worked out well. Sometimes
the practicality of a situation will be totally different from what your heart
wants and that’s where I guess the tightrope walk of fear and leap of faith
comes into play. Just so you know, I would take the leap of faith.
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