Life is all about the present. The presents you have, making
it worth it, breathing in and out. One such present is your school friends. You
could have their faint, half-forgotten images in your mind, with a couple of
year old frame of references and then you are just stunned and amazed by the
fact that they've changed so much. Suddenly all your senses are alert trying to
recollect how they were and constantly sinking in the fact that this is who
they are now. Sometimes the child in you wants to fight with the clock trying
to make it tick backwards but all you can do is order a couple of drinks and
hangout with these old friends and revive those times which made us stick
around in the first place. The time gap hardly matters. Whether it’s been a few
months or a few years, it’s the present which makes you happy. That very
moment, you realize THIS is friendship. You behave as if there has been no
void. Even if you feel it the questions and conversations are enough to fill them
up. Jumping from one topic to another like the blithely flying migrating birds,
the bliss of catching up is beyond these walls of words. And then the topic of
discussion is about you and you realize that all this while when you were
comparing the present and the past of your friends they were busy doing the
same thing. You realize how you’ve evolved and how circumstances have led you
to be who you are, as your friends ask you whether you still do this or that
which probably you might have forgotten yourself. You realize how you were paying
little attention to yourself in your busy life while your friends act as your
mirror reminding you of those little moments which mattered to them the most
about you. It’s funny how we think and act in one direction while your friends
discover the whole new side of you. Yeah! After all this while school friends
are still precious. They are still your presents!
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