It’s all about the Attitude..Introduction..(part#1)

At some point or the other in life many of us have felt the unnecessary time and energy spent by us on so many people or situations which at the end either we found a partial closure to or we just left it unattended as it seemed to be a dead end. In either of the case no one can ever assume it be deleted or removed completely from their lives. It’s just like the difference between wounds and scars. Wounds heal but scars remain. In such situations people seem to be lost in an infinite loop of constant reminding themselves about the dead end and then having encounters with ghost of the past ultimately leading to again a waste of time and energy (of course money in some cases as well). It’s like being alone in a dark room, shouting out loud “What should I do?” and there is no one to listen. 


And then we are ready to listen to anyone and anything. Try the most illogical and non-sense methods which we condemned once, just to find an answer. To satisfy ourselves with some reason which might be enough to spend the remaining breaths peacefully. In the end, we always look at ourselves and probably shed a tear or two in the memory of who we used to be and what the present offers us. This either fills us with depression or rage but a very few times with motivation or optimism. The question I ask is why so? Just because the negative encounter has revealed its climax upon us, is there no way for us to fight it? I believe there are very few things in this world about which we can be absolutely certain about. Be careful I mentioned things not people. None can ever be certain about anyone else. So, one cannot say that there is no way out, there always is. 


It’s all about your attitude which includes your point of view, your principles (if you have any and there is nothing wrong about not having one), your previous experiences and your maturity. Sometimes having one of these also turns out to be a problem. We imagine it not to be and wonder how easy it would have been to make a choice. The point is, do not let yourself wander in a dreamland imagining things to be perfect. Always be ready to accept the “greater” truth as knowledge is only provisional not absolute. The immediate question is what is “greater”? I believe this is more of a personal quest than general. It makes us who we are, how we act and what we believe. As soon as we start resisting against such conclusions or “greater” truth is when we say there is no way out. It’s after that when a feeling of hopelessness fills our heart with darkness....(to be continued...)